What is the best thing you can do when you realize that a loved one is suffering from hearing loss? Usually, people who suffer from gradual hearing loss don’t realize it so that makes it a difficult subject to talk about. Ignoring this difficult problem is not helpful for anyone involved. Your family member’s life will be bettered by the things you do now so don’t wait to find a way to discuss it. Think about these suggestions to help get you there.
If You Want to be Able to Explain it Better, do The Research
First of all, you should comprehend what is taking place yourself so you can describe it. As people get older, the chances of hearing loss increase for them. About one person out of every three suffer from some degree of hearing reduction by the time they reach the age of 74 and more than half have it after they reach the age of 75.
This kind of ear damage is technically known as presbycusis. It typically happens in both ears equally, and the effect is gradual. Years before anyone noticed, it’s probable that this person started losing their hearing.
There are many reasons presbycusis happens. Basically, many years of hearing sound eventually breaks down the delicate mechanism of the inner ear, particularly the tiny hair cells. Electrical signals are generated that go to the brain. The brain gets the signals and translates them into what you know as sound. Hearing is not possible without those little hairs.
Chronic sicknesses can play a role, as well, such as:
- Cardiovascular disease
- High blood pressure
- Diabetes
Hearing is reduced and the ear can be damaged by all of these.
Set a Date
It’s not only important what you say but also where you choose to say it. The best choice is to set something up so you both can get together and have a talk. It’s important not to be interrupted so decide on a private location. Bringing literature on the subject is also very helpful. For instance, the doctor might have a brochure that clarifies presbycusis.
Talk About the Whys
Expect this person will be a little defensive. Because it is related to aging, hearing loss can be a delicate subject. Growing older is a tough thing to acknowledge. Poor hearing may challenge the elderly’s belief that they are in control of their day-to-day lives.
Be ready to provide particulars as to how you know they have some hearing problems.
Remind them how often they ask you and others to repeat themselves. Keep the talk casual and don’t make it sound like you are complaining. Be patient and sympathetic as you put everything into perspective.
Be Prepared to Listen
Be prepared to sit back and listen after you have said what needs to be said. Your family member might have noticed some changes and could have other concern but doesn’t know what to do. To help them come to a realization concerning their hearing loss, ask questions that motivate them to keep talking.
Talk About the Support System
The greatest challenge is going to be going beyond the fear that comes with hearing loss. Many people feel on their own with their problem and don’t understand they have family and friends who will be there for them. Remind them of how other family members have found a way to cope with the same problem.
Bring Solutions
What to do next will be the most significant part of the talk. Hearing loss is not the end of the world so let your loved one know that. There are a lot of available tools including hearing aids which can be helpful. Much more sleek and modern hearing aids are currently available. They come in many sizes and shapes and with features that improve the quality of life. Show them some literature on a computer or brochure detailing the different devices that are available.
Going to the doctor is step one. Some hearing loss goes away. Rule out earwax build up or medication side effects that could be causing your issue by getting an ear exam. A hearing exam can then be set up and you will know for sure.
